tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8862307779347893122024-03-05T02:55:20.067-08:00Our Seasons Of GraceFor everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven.Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08840462269275616915noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886230777934789312.post-84170876918809645342019-04-27T22:22:00.001-07:002019-04-27T23:16:22.230-07:00The book is about ready to launch!I'm honestly really excited about this book. I think it's a book we need (but not before needing the gospel). We are continually walking further and further away from God. The world is getting darker the more we shun God out of our lives and society. And you don't have to look far to see it.<br />
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We as women are hiding in shame and embarassment and guilt from our sexual struggles. God made us sexual beings, it's a fact. Struggles are real but we need to remind ourselves we are NOT alone in the battles we face. Satan wants us to feel the guilt and shame we feel. He wants us to feel alone in the dark. He wants us to stay silent on these issues.<br />
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Here's what the authors have to say:<br />
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<em><span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">"The more we chase after God’s good design, the more the fog will lift. The more the confusion will clear up. The more we chase after our Savior, the more He will satisfy us in ways nothing on this earth ever could.</span></em><br />
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<em><span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">• A Biblical understanding of your sexuality,</span></em></div>
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<em><span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">• God’s good design for love, passion, and sex,</span></em></div>
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<em><span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">• Why your longings for intimacy are actually a good thing,</span></em></div>
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<em><span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">• How to conquer lust in your life,</span></em></div>
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<em><span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">• What God’s word teaches about porn, masturbation, and erotica,</span></em></div>
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<em><span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">• How to deal with secret sexual struggles,</span></em></div>
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<em><span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">• Practical help for embracing a life of purity,</span></em></div>
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<em><span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">• How to find ultimate satisfaction in Jesus,</span></em></div>
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<em><span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">• And much more.</span></em><br />
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;"><em>Regardless of where you’ve been or what you’re facing today, we're excited you’re reading this book. We pray that the truths of God’s word transform your life </em><em>like</em><em> they have ours." -Kristen and Bethany</em></span></div>
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The deal: Pre-order by April 29th ( ONLY DAYS LEFT) and you will receive the following freebies. Check it out! And stay tuned. I have begun to read this book and will have a review in a few days. Do yourself a favour and click on the link and to see what I'm on about. We need each other to bring these issues to the light and pour God's truth on them so we do not feel guilt or shame anymore!<br />
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<br />Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08840462269275616915noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886230777934789312.post-71691259733585771182019-04-06T23:35:00.000-07:002019-04-06T23:35:29.204-07:00Book Launch: Sex, Purity and the longings of a Girl's Heart. <span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Well, 18 months since my last post and my next post is about 'Sex. Purity and the longings of a Girl's Heart'. How fun!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">And I mean it! This book is released at the end of the month and I'm super excited to see how it's going to radically change how we view sex and purity in this dark and sexualised world. This book is going to do wonders in bringing God's truth out. </span><br />
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; line-height: 107%;">Modesty. A topic where the finger gets pointed but responsibility isn’t owned. A topic which society pushes to the sidelines. A word that the Bible pictures as beautiful, but that evokes ‘</span><span lang="IT" style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; line-height: 107%;">ugliness</span><span lang="FR" style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; line-height: 107%;">’ </span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; line-height: 107%;">today. </span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; line-height: 107%;">As society becomes more sexualised, ‘modest’ clothing becomes more associated with ‘boring' and ‘old-fashioned’. </span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="line-height: 107%;"><span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">Growing up, I had a very limited understanding of what modesty meant and looked like in day-to-day life. I did not learn the value of my body and the power of my clothing. I often walked out of the house without a care about what I was wearing. I was far more focused on who I could impress that day. I became very obsessed with my self-image and did not treat my body with any respect. I had little understanding of how precious my body is.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span lang="EN-US" style="color: windowtext; line-height: 107%;">Now in my mid-twenties, I am seeking to understand how modesty fits into my life. </span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: windowtext; line-height: 107%;">Part of my journey has been to study God’s </span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: windowtext; line-height: 107%;">W</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: windowtext; line-height: 107%;">ord and various Christian authors</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: windowtext; line-height: 107%;">’</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: windowtext; line-height: 107%;"> views on the topic. I have been challenged to figure out where I stand. I</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: windowtext; line-height: 107%;"> have discovered that being modest in today’s ‘dress to impress’ society requires wisdom AND the fear of God over fear of man.</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: windowtext; line-height: 107%;"><o:p></o:p></span></span><br />
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<span lang="EN-US" style="line-height: 107%;"><span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">Modesty stems from the heart. How we treat our bodies including how we choose our clothing reveals what is going on inside our hearts. What goes through your mind as you look at your wardrobe in the morning? <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="line-height: 107%;"><span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">I often struggle with an inner battle when I dress for outings. Too often I am focussed on wanting to look beautiful and to be accepted. Earlier this week I tried on a dress I thought was rather cute. I had to fight the temptation to keep the dress because in my heart I knew it would not be a wise choice to wear it. It was not an easy fight.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span lang="DE" style="line-height: 107%;">I am </span><span lang="EN-US" style="line-height: 107%;">far from perfect in this area of my life, but what I am realising is:<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="line-height: 107%;"><span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">Modesty is <b>not </b>boring. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span lang="EN-US" style="line-height: 107%;">Modesty is <b>not </b></span><span lang="DA" style="line-height: 107%;">old-fashioned.</span><span lang="EN-US" style="line-height: 107%;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="line-height: 107%;"><span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">Modesty is <b>not </b>ugly. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span lang="EN-US" style="line-height: 107%;">‘<i>Do not let your adorning be external- the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewellery, or the clothing you wear- but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God</i></span><i><span lang="FR" style="line-height: 107%;">’</span></i><i><span lang="EN-US" style="line-height: 107%;">s sight is very precious.</span></i><i><span lang="FR" style="line-height: 107%;">’ </span></i><span lang="EN-US" style="line-height: 107%;">1 Peter 3:3-5 (ESV)<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="line-height: 107%;"><span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">This is a well-known verse among many Christians with the reminder that beauty really is in the heart of people. What is that draws you to your friends? Is it the clothes they wear, or how beautiful you think they are on the outside? <b>Or is it what flows out from their hearts?</b><o:p></o:p></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span lang="EN-US" style="line-height: 107%;">‘<i>Likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire.</i></span><i><span lang="FR" style="line-height: 107%;">’ </span></i><span lang="EN-US" style="line-height: 107%;">1 Timothy 2:9 (ESV)<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span lang="EN-US" style="line-height: 107%;">In this verse, Paul is not suggesting we should <b>not</b> style our hair or <b>never </b>wear jewellery, or that we should wear sacks to cover ourselves up. Paul is suggesting we shift from focusing </span><i><span lang="ES-TRAD" style="line-height: 107%;">so much</span></i><span lang="EN-US" style="line-height: 107%;"> on our outward selves, and instead look at what is going on in our </span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: windowtext; line-height: 107%;">hearts </span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: windowtext; line-height: 107%;">and character. </span><span lang="EN-US" style="line-height: 107%;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span lang="EN-US" style="line-height: 107%;">Modesty is beautiful. In </span><i><span lang="FR" style="line-height: 107%;">True Beauty, </span></i><span lang="EN-US" style="line-height: 107%;">authors Carolyn Mahaney and Nicole Whitacre describe modesty as ‘a reverence for God and respect for others in our dress.</span><span lang="FR" style="line-height: 107%;">’ </span><span lang="EN-US" style="line-height: 107%;">A modest woman is a beautiful woman as she values her body created by God, and adopts an attitude that seeks to serve and love Christ in her dress.<i><o:p></o:p></i></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="line-height: 107%;"><span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">Nancy Leigh DeMoss shares her thoughts on modesty in her book <i>Lies Women Believe and the Truth that Sets Them Free</i>: <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;"><span lang="EN-US" style="line-height: 107%;">‘The outward appearance of the Christian woman is to reflect a heart that is simple, pure, and well-ordered; her clothing and hairstyles should not be distracting or draw attention to herself by being extravagant, extreme or indecent. In this way, she reflects the truth condition of her heart and her relationship with the Lord, and she makes the Gospel attractive to the world.</span><span lang="FR" style="line-height: 107%;">’ </span><span lang="EN-US" style="line-height: 107%;">(Page 81)<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="line-height: 107%;"><span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">I would like to encourage and challenge you to think about where God sits in your life as you think about what you wear. One place to start is to ask yourself some questions:<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="line-height: 107%;"><span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">Society believes (and some Christians believe) there is no place for modesty today. Will you prayerfully consider what you put on inside and outside of your body? Will you seek God on how you can see modesty is beautiful?</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08840462269275616915noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886230777934789312.post-27524420275764883322016-09-14T15:51:00.001-07:002016-09-15T15:58:24.698-07:00Taste and See the Lord is good... for the single woman?<div class="MsoNormal">
<b><span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">Do you think God is
good in your singleness? Do you believe in God’s Sovereignty in your
singleness?<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;"><i>God is good. All the
time. </i>This was a saying at my hometown church. The pastor would begin by saying,
‘God is good.’ And the congregation would respond with, ‘All the time, God is
good.’ For me, this was a helpful reminder on an important Biblical truth: God
is good. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">Do I always believe those words? As I navigate life as a
young single woman who desires marriage but feels it’s so far from reach, do I
always believe God is good?<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">One of my favourite people in the Bible is King David. David
consistently draws me into his words with his raw honesty in the Psalms, his
journey to genuine repentance, and his humble praises of God the midst of
constant suffering.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">Recently I have been reading Psalm 34 and it has challenged
me to question, ‘do I <i>really </i>think
God is good in my singleness?’ I have watched friends get married and it is a
joyous occasion. I have watched friends glow with pregnancy and it is a very
exciting time. But both of these things have been deep desires of mine since I
was much younger, so sometimes I walk away feeling the sting of hurt and I want
to question God: <i>where is Your goodness</i>?
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">Quite simply, His goodness is everywhere. In verse 34, David
writes, ‘Oh, taste and see that the Lord is good!’ (ESV)<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">This is an interesting yet seemingly mismatched combination
of senses but there is a method to his writing. David urges his readers to
experience with their senses the goodness of God. David is giving an example
that we, as children of God, have the ability to experience a more personal and
intimate way of knowing God’s goodness. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">God <i>is </i>good, and
He <i>is </i>good in singleness. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">There are (at least) two reasons I can say this confidently
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<li><span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">Singleness does not define me. Singleness may be
temporary or may be for the rest of my life. Ultimately my identity comes from
God. I may be single now, but there is more to me than whether I am married or
not. I am a daughter, a friend, and I have many interests, dreams and goals. I
am also a child of God and even in my singleness, am being used for God’s
glory. This goes for you too.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">Every day there are blessings that come from
God. When there is an aspect of my life that I struggle to see the good in
(e.g. my singleness) I can look in other areas and find the goodness of God. Sometimes
it is as simple as seeing the sun rise. When I am having a bad day or I am
struggling to see God’s goodness in my circumstances I often cling to a passage
in Lamentations 3 that talks about God’s mercies being new everyday (verses 22
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">David is one example of struggling with circumstances but he
chooses to believe in God’s goodness. This is where I am challenged to embrace
my singleness and choose to see God’s goodness in my life.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">The next time you hear someone say, ‘God is good’, will you
be able to confidently respond with ‘all the time, God is good?’ I pray we will.
Singleness isn’t easy, but God remains faithful and true and we can hold fast
to the truth He is good. All the time.</span><o:p></o:p></div>
Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08840462269275616915noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886230777934789312.post-66157602469499820242016-03-20T18:23:00.000-07:002016-03-20T18:23:11.966-07:00Finding Comfort through Change<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">‘But I don’t want to,’ I say
gritting my teeth and fighting back the urge to stamp my foot. The news has hit
and my heart is sinking. Change is on the horizon.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">I am having an argument with God. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">I know I am fighting a losing
battle. Experience has taught me I never win an argument with God. I don’t want
to back down. Somehow, admitting I am wrong is a sign of failure or defeat.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">This is the conversation between
God and me when significant change is on the horizon. I begin to feel fear and
panic deep inside of me. I feel my stomach dropping and my heart trying to leap
out of my body. I fear losing control and watching life happen without being
able to do anything about it. When I know there is significant change is
coming, I want to fight God. I know I could see change as an opportunity to be
joyful. But still I fight. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">We entered a new year a couple
months back. My Facebook feed was filled with mixed responses. Some were full
of excitement to see what the year ahead had in store, others were keen to see
the end of a crappy year. And then there were the ones whose responses were
full of uncertainty, doubt and anxiety. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">A new year to me is almost always a
guarantee for change. That thought fills me with dread. Changes make me feel like my world is
crumbling around me. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">The issue is not with whether I
like change or not (and let’s be honest – lots of us don’t like change. We’re
not alone). <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">The issue is with <i>how I deal with it.</i><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">My temperament tends towards:
bottling up my emotions until they unexpectedly burst, depression and anxiety
symptoms, stress and catastrophic thinking. I struggle to make decisions as
everything becomes fuzzy in my mind. I fear (or perhaps <i>know</i> deep down) I am not in control. It is like there is a warning
button that is turned on in my brain when change is on the horizon. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">However, not all change is bad.
Change is becoming a reminder to me that I have a sovereign God. When my family
went through some drastic changes a couple of years ago, one of my pastors
consistently reminded me ‘God is sovereign’. I have clung to that truth ever
since. I have found comfort knowing God is bigger than any change in life.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">As much as we battle for control in
our lives, and as much as we <i>think</i> we
know better than God, the Bible offers a completely different perspective. Rather
than stamping our feet and pouting because our ways do not line with His (guilty!),
turning towards God and His truth provides comfort and peace. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">For several years I have dreaded
even <i>thinking</i> about moving outside of
my comfort zone. I thrive off routine, and predictability. Choosing to live
life my own way has never ended well so I think I have actually feared change
in case I end up back where I was. I now choose a verse (Lamentations 3:21-23)
to meditate on each day and place my trust in God. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">The Bible has many other verses you
can choose from as your own. Print them out and hang them on a wall or carry
them in your wallet to remind you what the verse says. Here are just a couple:<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">‘<i>God is not man, that he should lie, or a son of man, that he should
change his mind. Has he said, and will he not do it? Or has he spoken, and will
he not fulfil it?’ </i>Numbers 23:19-20 (ESV).<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">‘<i>Be strong and courageous. Do not fear or be in dread of them, for it is
the L<sub>ORD</sub> your God who goes with you. He will not leave you or
forsake you.’ </i>Deuteronomy 31:6 (ESV).<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">‘<i>Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.’ </i>Hebrews
13:8 (ESV). <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08840462269275616915noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886230777934789312.post-91595054331636538102016-03-14T13:41:00.001-07:002016-03-14T13:41:11.719-07:00{Guest Post} From Head to Heart<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">I have been blessed with several opportunities to guest post on other blogs. Watch out for them over the coming months. The first one to be published can be found on <a href="http://www.tosharecareandlove.com/" target="_blank">To Share, Care and Love</a>. I had the pleasure of 'meeting' Hannah last year when she began her '<a href="http://www.tosharecareandlove.com/2015/09/what-does-grace-mean-to-you-katies.html" target="_blank">What Does Grace Mean to Me</a>?' series.</span><br />
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">I am guilty of this. I have recently been reading through Beth Moore’s book, <i>Breaking Free. </i>Beth Moore so aptly and boldly speaks out about unbelief. <b>How often do you doubt God’s love for yourself? How often do you feel unworthy to approach God?</b> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">While I feel incredibly blessed to have grown up in a Christian environment, I also feel it has made me run the risk of becoming complacent with Gospel truth. There are plenty of verses I ‘know’ in my head but have a lack of true understanding or acceptance in my heart. </span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="line-height: 17.12px;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">In a heartbeat I could confidently answer that question with an <i>all the time.</i> The question related to our sermon on Psalm 8.<i> </i>Usually when I feel small, it is in quite a negative way (<i>I think I am not worth anyone’s time; I think I am not worthy at all</i>). But, over Christmas while on holidays I felt really small. This time in a very different way. I felt small as I acknowledged the greatness of our God. I felt small as I was in awe of how majestic our God is.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="line-height: 107%;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">I struggle
with low self-esteem and believing in my insignificance for worse. This year I
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greatness. By His grace, we are His children. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08840462269275616915noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886230777934789312.post-60350085109160655192015-12-10T21:20:00.002-08:002015-12-10T21:20:35.785-08:00What is your plan for when Christmas is hard?<div class="MsoNormal">
<span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Christmas is <i>meant
</i>to be a happy, exciting and fun time. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Except that is not always the case. I think almost
everyone can understand what a tough, sad and stressful Christmas is like. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">They can come in different forms which makes it hard
to look forward to Christmas. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 107%;">·<span style="font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Maybe you are still single after a
number of years or have found yourself single after a break-up. Maybe you have
experienced the death of a close person throughout the year. Maybe you have
moved away from your community. Maybe tensions are high in your family.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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</span></span><span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 107%; text-indent: -18pt;">A family member or loved one has
passed.</span></span></li>
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</span></span><span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 107%; text-indent: -18pt;">Arguing and tension is high in the
family.</span></span></li>
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</span></span><span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 107%; text-indent: -18pt;">It’s the first Christmas away from
family.</span></span></li>
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</span></span><span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 107%; text-indent: -18pt;">You find yourself still single.</span></span></li>
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<span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Whatever the circumstance, if you think it is going to
be tough, I would suggest having a plan. It is easy to become caught up in the
emotions of what has happened (or is happening). It is healthy to let yourself
feel and be upset, but the day can still be enjoyed. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Here are some of my thoughts to encourage myself, and
others, not to lose focus this Christmas.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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</span></span><span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 107%; text-indent: -18pt;">Cook a favourite dish in honour of
a loved one or choose a special Christmas ornament. One year I bought angels
for each of my family members to place on the tree in memory of our mum.</span></span></li>
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</span></span><span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 107%; text-indent: -18pt;">Create your own Christmas
traditions. Volunteer at a local animal shelter or homeless shelter, or visit
people in hospital. Turn some negative and upsetting energy on being alone
and/or single into focusing on others in need.</span></span></li>
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</span></span><span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 107%; text-indent: -18pt;">Buy yourself a craft project to
start on Christmas day, splurge on a movie you have been wanting to see, take a
road trip to somewhere new.</span></span></li>
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</span></span><span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 107%; text-indent: -18pt;">If you have friends in town over
Christmas, see what they are doing. Even if plans cannot be made for the actual
day, see if it is possible to do a dinner between friends on Christmas Eve or Boxing
Day. In my home church there are a few people who open up their homes over
Christmas to those who do not have family nearby. Maybe there is someone near
you who does that. Or, why not be the one to open up your place to others?</span></span></li>
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</span></span><span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 107%; text-indent: -18pt;">Find some activities you can use as
an out when the stress is high. Being in the middle of stress, arguments and
tension is never any fun. Prepare some outlets.</span></span></li>
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<span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Christmas always has the potential to be stressful and
painful, but there is always a chance and a choice to turn that around. You can
choose to wallow or choose to find the joy in the midst of the pain. The day is
not even about us. The day is not even about our families. The day is about
Jesus and the good news of the gospel. </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08840462269275616915noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886230777934789312.post-83235419842569492322015-12-07T16:51:00.001-08:002015-12-07T16:54:53.430-08:00Do you have hope when Christmas changes?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 107%;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">The
Christmas season is here. I have a few friends who have been counting down
since July. Now we are faced with the reality that Christmas is 2 and a half weeks away. Often there are multitudes of emotions attached to that reality.
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<span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 107%;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">For
some, there is a tinge of dread at the first sight of decorations appearing in
the shops. For others, there is excitement and some people have been planning
and buying presents throughout the year. The Christmas season is a busy time, sometimes
even stressful. Even though it is a time to celebrate the birth of Jesus, and
theoretically should be full of joy, there can still be an immense amount of
pain associated with it for some people. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 107%;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Christmas
day is rarely a traditional happy-family day for everyone. I know my Christmas’
growing up never replicated a Disney Christmas. In fact, Christmas was very
similar year-to-year until the year my mum died. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 107%;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">The
year mum died was also the year I had moved out of home. Christmas had changed.
Not only was my family having to face one less person around, I was also beginning
to face the dilemma of whether to travel back home and spend Christmas with my
family, or stay where I was and spend it with my then-boyfriend’s family. The
decision was not a hard one because Christmas with my family was very important
to me, especially since my younger sisters were still quite young when our
mother had died. I, unintentionally, tried to take on the mother role over
Christmas and ensure there were still plenty of presents under the tree for my
younger siblings. I wanted to try to keep Christmas as ‘normal’ as possible.
The true Christmas spirit was not really a priority for me—instead it became
about my family, trying to please them, and in doing so believing that I could
fix their pain. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 107%;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Since
moving back to my home-town, Christmastime has changed yet again. I have <i>two </i>immediate families I get to spend
the day with. However, that is not because I have married and now have my
husband’s family to consider. Instead, I have adopted another family. Even
though Christmas still does bring some mixed emotions, I know I am actually in
a pretty blessed position as a young, single woman. I have twice the family to
be around in an otherwise hard and painful time. Many singles, by the time they
are my age, are living by themselves or with friends, and probably far from any
immediate family. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 107%;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">While
Christmas this year is slightly different and I am fighting the ache of still
being single and childless, there are a number of blessings I remind myself of:<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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</span></span><span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 13pt; line-height: 107%; text-indent: -18pt;">I do not have the fear of facing holidays alone.</span></span></li>
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</span></span><span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 13pt; line-height: 107%; text-indent: -18pt;">I do not have to face setting a table for one, and the
conundrums of planning a meal for one.</span></span></li>
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</span></span><span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 13pt; line-height: 107%; text-indent: -18pt;">I do not have to question if it is worth putting up a
Christmas tree or whether I should buy a present for myself.</span></span></li>
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</span></span><span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 13pt; line-height: 107%; text-indent: -18pt;">I also do not have to worry about being quizzed by relatives
on why I am still single.</span></span></li>
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<span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 107%;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">These
blessings are only minute compared to the real truth behind Christmas. The real
truth that easily gets buried among the focus on family, let alone the present
buying, meal planning, travelling, end-of-year parties and school
presentations. This truth remains good news no matter what has happened
throughout the year. It is a truth I am challenging myself to remember and hold
onto as I approach another different Christmas. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 107%;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">The
good news the angel brought to the shepherds 2000 years ago on that first
Christmas:<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 13.0pt; line-height: 107%;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">‘<i>I bring you good news of great joy that will
be for all the people. For unto you is born this day in the city of David a
Saviour, who is Christ the Lord</i>’ Luke 2:10-11. (ESV)<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<b><span lang="EN-AU" style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">How are you
facing a different Christmas?<o:p></o:p></span></span></b></div>
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to know more about this ‘good news’? Drop me a line and we can chat.</span> <o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08840462269275616915noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886230777934789312.post-90864936462928980812015-11-08T00:58:00.000-08:002015-11-08T00:58:54.885-08:00Do you believe freedom is possible?<div style="color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">
If you asked me what sin I struggle with the most, I do not think pride would be at the top of the list. That is not to say I do not struggle with pride at all. A couple of years ago, I went through a period in my life where I believed, deep down, my sin was too big for God. I believed, whole-heartedly, I was trapped in the self-destructive life I had chosen. I believed I could not be free. I believed, even if God could, He would not want to free me. I was believing lies. Although it may not seem like it, this, my friends, is still pride.</div>
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I spent many months believing these lies even though I did not have any proof. Being that I am human, my heart is faulty. I can question where these lies came from- was it my perfectionistic tendencies, my people-pleasing nature, or failing to live up to expectation? Ultimately, it begins with our sinful nature leading to a faulty heart.</div>
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Whether it was one or a combination of those scenarios, the point was, I was squashing the Truth of the Gospel. I was ignoring the Truth that I am loved (John 3:16), I have been set free (Galatians 5:1) and I am forgiven (Ephesian 1:7). I was sinking deeper into a hole only God could get me out of. The deeper I was falling, the louder the lies were becoming. I was hearing, and believing:</div>
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Lies. We all hear lies. They are not uncommon. It is Satan’s trick to bring us down and draw us away from God and His Truth. Thankfully, with any lie, there is always the Truth. By God’s Grace, He brought some people into my life who persevered in speaking the Truth to me so that I believed I could be free. When I faced temptation or when I began to feel hopeless and lost, ‘Jesus is Bigger’ became the motto to remind me of the Truth. When I think my sin is too big for God to forgive and begin to shy away from approaching God, I pull out Psalm 103:12, ‘as far as the east is from the west, so far does He remove our transgressions from us.’ (ESV) The verse reminds me of how strong God’s forgiveness is.</div>
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Have you ever believed you could not be free? Have you ever believed your sin was too big for God? There is good news for you! The Bible is full of examples of Jesus being bigger than anything else. The greatest example is His resurrection. If Jesus can overcome death, I think He is bigger than any sin, problem, sickness, doubt and lie there is. Unfortunately, because we live in a sinful world, these will still be present until Jesus comes back again but He is still bigger!</div>
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<li>Surrounding myself with Christian community. I need the encouragement of fellow brothers and sisters. I attend a bible study once a week, and I also meet up with a couple of girls regularly to pray and have accountability.</li>
<li>Praying each day to renounce the lies and believe the Truth. For the past 2 years or so, I have been praying a prayer at night for protection of my heart and mind. The Bible encourages us to take every thought captive. (2 Corinthians 10:5)</li>
<li>Memorising Scripture. Having verses up around the home and workplace is great. For example, the mirror in my bathroom has ‘Truth = Freedom’ and ‘The Armour of God’. The mirror can be a place where lies begin to form so it is important to remind myself of the Truth. A couple of my favourite verses on freedom are Galatians 5:1 and Galatians 5:13.</li>
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Jesus is bigger and I am still human. I need to continue to work at fighting pride, renouncing lies, and reminding myself of the Truth. Jesus is bigger than my pride, Jesus is bigger than the lies, Jesus is bigger than my sin. Jesus is bigger!!</div>
Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08840462269275616915noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886230777934789312.post-15980483905291080582015-07-16T23:17:00.000-07:002016-01-28T02:13:30.914-08:00Celebrating the Quiet Victories<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 115%;">
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balloons are hung up around the room, a cake is baked and iced ready to eat,
and people are invited and ready to dance to a selected playlist of music.
There are many victories that are not celebrated and it would be silly if there
was a party each and every time. Life really would be a party!<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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personal battles and personal victories. The person next door may be struggling
with insecurity, low self-esteem and anytime they walk in the room without
apologising is a victory. The person who sits next to you at church may be
battling anxiety and it is a victory they made it to the service. A work
colleague may be battling depression and each day they turn up to work is a
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<span style="line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: medium;">Each person’s victory is different
but it does not make any of them less ‘celebrated’. The past two years have
been full of victories for me. One of them has been a progression of overcoming
fear in various areas of my life. Although I have usually been the last person
to see them as victories, they are milestones all the same. I have a tendency,
and I am sure many others have as well, to minimise any steps taken forward. If
I look back over some of my past fears, I can chuckle as they seem trivial now.
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valid to celebrate. Maybe not to the extent of a party, but to acknowledge the
step taken and thank God for giving you the strength. The steps I take to move
forward in my life are different from the next person. When each step is taken
to move forward, I picture Jesus celebrating in Heaven on our behalf. The power
of the cross shows Jesus overcame death. With Jesus on my side, I can have
strength to keep moving forward.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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seem like or look like to someone else, each one is evidence of the grace of God
in my life. When I look back over my life, not only do I feel thankful for the
strength and hope of Jesus to have gotten me to this point, but I also see the
growth that has allowed me to reach where I am in life now.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: medium;">There is, however still one fear I
have not yet overcome: spiders. Ironically, I write this post after having
spotted a large sized spider hiding behind the couch I normally sit in. Even
after I (so courageously) sprayed it and moved it outside, I am spending the
evening cautiously sitting on another seat. Just in case. Maybe God is not
finished with me yet!<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08840462269275616915noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886230777934789312.post-82050701775782017972015-06-10T15:40:00.000-07:002016-01-28T02:19:20.143-08:00Fruit of the Spirit: Choosing Joy<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: medium;">Have you ever gone through a trial of some kind and a friend has told you to 'count it all'? If they did, you would think they were mad. The presence of joy in the middle of suffering sounds like a mismatch.</span></div>
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<a name='more'></a><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: medium;">At church there is a woman I know well. She is a woman I admire and look up to. This woman has experienced some harsh trials throughout her life. And while these trials would truly test most people and bring them down, this woman moves through them with an awe-inspiring confidence around her. She knows it is okay to cry. She knows she can grieve. But she does not let the trial overcome her.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: medium;">When I go through a trial, I am easily torn apart. I lose hope and confidence and feel beaten down. I am sure I am not alone in this. In my striving to lean on the Holy Spirit for my heart-change, this is an area I struggle with. What exactly is joy and what does it look like to 'count it all joy, when you meet trials of various kinds', as James says in the Bible?</span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: medium;">Joy is mentioned throughout the Bible, from David's Psalms to Paul and Silas in Jail. The joy I am talking about is 'confidence in God's grace, despite circumstances- despite what <i>happens</i>' (Elisa Morgan, Naked Fruit). When I look at the woman from church, I see she carries a confidence about her. While she still cries and feels emotions, and maybe even has moments of questioning God, she has confidence in Him. She is a beautiful picture of a godly woman striving to be Christ-like.</span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: medium;">This joy that covers her is not a one-time application. Joy is not the wearing of a wedding dress or prom dress once, but the putting on of jeans every day. It is not about feeling good or feeling happy all of the time. Joy is a choice to trust our Heavenly Father that everything is under control.</span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: medium;">When faced with a break-up, I can choose joy because there is confidence to know God is my number and I do not need a relationship to be complete. When faced with the death of a loved one, I can choose joy because there is confidence knowing God is sovereign. When a job opportunity is lost, a friendship has ended, or sickness hits, I can choose joy because God has gone before me.</span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: medium;">How can I have joy? How can I know the joy the woman at church has? When I wake up in the morning and I am tempted to be grumpy at the world around me, I can choose to rejoice in my salvation, in my hope in God, and in His sovereignty despite what may happen each day. Joy comes from knowing and understanding who God is. Joy comes from turning upwards to God. Joy comes from obeying God's word.</span></span></div>
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<li><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; line-height: 115%;"> Reminding myself of truth by writing out verses to hang on the walls. I have found this to be extremely helpful in many situations. There are times when it is hard enough to open up the Bible and read (sometimes it might come down to my stubbornness and pride). By having already picked out some verses and placing them where I can be visually reminded helps me to remember my secure future in Christ, my identity in Christ, and my freedom. Here are a couple: Galatians 5:1 '<i>For freedom Christ has set me free</i>' (ESV) and Romans 8:1, '<i>There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ' </i>(ESV).</span></li>
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2 months ago I wrote a post introducing my goal of focusing on the Fruit of the
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faltered slightly from my original timeline but I now bring my first post in my
‘Fruit of the Spirit’ series. I first saw this series as an opportunity for
growth. But I sometimes forget to acknowledge that growth usually comes from a
challenge. And that is exactly how I see it. When I think of the Fruit of the
Spirit (Galatians 5:22) in my life I see where I am not loving, where I lack a
joyful attitude, where patience has run away and the last thing I want is
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in this pursuit to embrace, and train for, godliness, I have been challenged to
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us to be different. There is an amazing diversity in personalities and
temperaments among us. There are some people who work really well together. But
there are others who clash. There are times when these clashes occur and it is
hard to openly, willingly and easily love people. I have begun to feel
convicted over this area as I engage with different people in various areas of
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hasn’t been an easy road to walk </span>but it’s been enlightening as I can
reflect on various relationships and have a deeper understanding on why this
worked or why that didn’t. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: medium;">Most of all, it’s been about allowing
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: medium;">Some people are so <i>easy</i> to love. Others, are hard. It is
challenging to swallow pride and instead, I need to remember I am on my own
journey in becoming like Jesus. I need to remember what He has said: <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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for those who abuse you. </i><i><span style="color: black;">T</span></i><i>o
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to everyone who begs from you, and from one who takes away your goods do not
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: medium;">Some of these difficult people
may not be my enemy, but I am still called to love no matter how little I agree
with them or how much I find their own attitude frustrating. If I look to my
own feelings in tough relationships, I usually end up disappointed, bitter or
frustrated. But if I look to Jesus, part of loving, is to be praying for them. <span style="color: windowtext;">Now that’s a concept</span><span style="color: red;"> </span>I
don’t think about often when dealing with difficult people. I have been looking
at areas of godly discipline in my life and prayer is one I want to improve on.
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: medium;">Thankfully, though it is hard to love difficult people, and
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: medium;">Not only do I need to be praying
for the people in my life, I cannot forget my responsibility. I have learned
recently that I do not take responsibility for anyone else’s thoughts or
behaviours. But I do take responsibility for my own. There may be people in a
dark and hard place. There may be relationships that are strained. There may be
words that hurt and do not make sense.
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Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08840462269275616915noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886230777934789312.post-70200610335153969062015-04-08T16:25:00.000-07:002016-01-28T02:22:06.362-08:00Heartache (Triple Braided Life)<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: medium;">I wrote this post for Triple Braided Life after a challenging week dealing with an aching heart. In the past I would deal with hurt and pain in destructive ways. I wrote this post to reflect on some truths of a caring and loving God who knows our pain. I hope you can find some encouragement from it:</span><br />
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But, I felt like it was something I needed to write. I have dealt with my sexual sin from my past. But, it is not forgotten. It may be forgotten in God's eyes, and I may be forgiven and redeemed. But, it is sin that will most likely impact future relationships. And that saddens me. It saddens me on a whole lot of levels. It is a deep issue, but it is a real issue. I admire writer's who speak the truth- not just the truth of God's Word, but the truth of issues that we, too often, sweep under the carpet.</span><br />
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<a data-reactid=".ag.$<1426058349928=21724596058-1018467687@mail=1projektitan=1com>.2:0.0.0.0.0.0.$range0:0" href="http://triplebraidedlife.com/2015/03/purity-name/" style="background-color: #dbedfe; color: #3b5998; cursor: pointer; line-height: 15.3599996566772px; text-decoration: none; white-space: pre-wrap;" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif;">http://triplebraidedlife.com/2015/03/purity-name/</span></a>Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08840462269275616915noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886230777934789312.post-5153272424278049922015-02-28T21:22:00.000-08:002017-03-25T00:41:13.005-07:00Are you embracing godliness in your life? (Triple Braided Life)<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small;">In October last year, I participated in a '31 days of...' interview for a fellow blogger, Brenda. Brenda writes for <a href="http://www.triplebraidedlife.com/">Triple Braided Life</a>, a blog for single ladies pointing them to truth. She decided to interview 31 single women, one for each day of the month, on the topic of, 'Living with Purpose.' I had the pleasure of being interviewed (you can see it here <a href="http://triplebraidedlife.com/articles/31-days-interviews-single-women/">31 days of Single Women</a>). A couple months later, Brenda contacted me during the time I was setting up this blog and asked if I would like to become a contributor for Triple Braided Life. I was not expecting this. But I am incredibly thankful for the opportunity this has opened up for me this coming year. </span><br />
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Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08840462269275616915noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886230777934789312.post-12379164748858516552015-02-13T12:19:00.000-08:002017-03-25T00:40:13.010-07:00Valentine's Day<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08840462269275616915noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886230777934789312.post-86202747603025004392015-02-04T01:35:00.005-08:002017-03-25T00:36:01.188-07:00Godliness, Fruits of the Spirit and the Christian Woman<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;">
<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small;">It has certainly been awhile since I have posted here. And, nearly a whole month has gone into 2015. It almost seems pointless to talk about 2015 as a ‘new’ year, and reflect on the year just gone. I have enjoyed reading what people as they write about a single word for their focus of 2015. I didn’t set out to make specific resolutions.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small;">Wow, truthfully? I don’t know that I am making much effort (if at all) to train myself for godliness. What does that even look like?<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small;">A few weeks ago, I picked up a book, <i>Naked Fruit </i>by Elisa Morgan<i>,</i> thinking it was quite appropriate to dig into for growing in godliness. I grew up thinking I was a ‘good’ Christian. I knew many<span style="color: red;"> </span>answers about God and the Bible. I always followed the rules and I was nice to people. However, in the past couple of years as I have been maturing as a Christian, I was wrong. I’ve realised knowing the answers, following the rules and being nice isn’t all there is. <span style="color: red;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small;">What life as a Christian is about, is living like Jesus. Paul describes what this looks like several times in the New Testament. One of my favourite NT books, Galatians, teaches the fruit of the spirit. In 5:16, he says, “<i>But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh.” </i>Walking by the Spirit produces love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control (the ‘fruit of the spirit’). When I rely on the strength and grace of God, I can work towards growing in godliness. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small;">My emotional state is quite the rollercoaster ride. I have climbed into a rollercoaster, sometimes tentatively, expecting ups and downs to occur. The elation of feeling on top of the world and in control is only squashed by the drops and the turns of feeling discouraged, frustrated, angry, upset, you name it, as the rollercoaster takes me along its course. I am a fool to think I have any ounce of control. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small;">Before I know it, I explode. An eruption of emotions none of which I can explicitly label. The emotions are so intense, it is scary sometimes. My mind is a foggy mess; I don’t feel good and never know which way to turn. <span style="color: red;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small;">Recently, I began to experience physical anxiety symptoms. I am no stranger to anxiety but I thought I had it somewhat under control. All of a sudden, with changes to my life of a new job, I began to feel anxious. There were also other emotions running around. I was feeling frustrated. I was feeling discouraged. After several days of this, it was the night of bible study. I drove myself to where it was being held. As soon as I parked the car, the volcano hit. I burst into tears. Uh oh, out of control crazy emotions. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small;">I have struggled to see that emotions can be a good thing. In the past, I have believed that such intense emotions are sinful. But, Jesus felt emotions- He felt angry, and He felt upset- to the point He wept when Lazarus died. What Jesus did not do, was sin whenever He felt strong emotions. Unfortunately, for me there is a lot of temptation in lashing out at someone; becoming destructive against myself; or exhibiting behaviour that is sinful the minute I feel a particularly strong emotion.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small;"> It is tough, but a comforting truth comes from 1 Corinthians 10:13, "<i>No temptation has overtaken you that is uncommon to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.</i>" I may be strongly tempted, but God has provided a way out- I can lean on His strength to withstand it. I can take comfort knowing I am not alone through the temptation.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small;">I can also continue on the path of righteousness, “<i>If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” </i>(1 John 1:9.) The actual emotion isn’t the sin. It is the action I take as a result of that emotion that is sinful. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small;">I have found it hard to accept the fact that emotions reveal our hearts. It is a humbling experience to be reminded that I am far from perfect. I may struggle with temptation to fall into addictive behaviours<span style="color: red;"> </span>but my heart still needs to be restored. I may not be able to run away from my emotions but I can be in control of them, instead of my emotional state controlling me. I do not need to be a slave to my feelings. I do need to trust God with them. I need to allow God to heal and restore my heart so that instead of anger, jealously, anxiety and manipulation flowing out of it, there is “<i>love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.” </i>(Galatians 5:22-23.)<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08840462269275616915noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886230777934789312.post-25329305552736572912014-10-25T04:48:00.002-07:002017-03-25T00:32:36.863-07:00Mistaken Identity <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: "trebuchet ms" , sans-serif; font-size: medium;">I</span><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small;">t was November and I was on the
verge of completing my Bachelor’s degree. The end was at the tips of my
fingers, yet I couldn’t quite touch it. It was a time of the mad scramble of
writing up final assignments, finishing off a block of work placement and working
my part-time hours. I was stricken with anxiety in the midst of fighting a
deadly battle for life and health.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small;">My view of the future was bleak. It
was impossible to see a way forward. During that time I was going through the
motions with no hope. I did not believe I had a future. I did not believe it
was possible that I could follow my passions. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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assignments, the more impossible they were to write. The more I faced work, the
more anxious I was becoming. The closer I got to that finishing line, the
further away “the future” seemed. Meltdown after meltdown, I was convinced that
I was never going to make it as an adult. What about the words of God by the
prophet Jeremiah, “I know the plans to give you a future and a hope”? I did not
see that being fulfilled anytime soon, or at all.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small;">This was not the first time I had
felt this way. Many times, prior to this, I had fallen for the lies of the
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small;">“You are inadequate for taking
twice as long to complete your degree.”<br />
“You are worthless for still being single.”<br />
“You are incompetent for not working full-time and only getting your licence at
25 years old.”<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small;">The fight against anxiety is an
on-going battle. It is paralysing to believe it is possible to move forward
when lies are swarming around in my head. It is exhausting. However, there is a
weapon for this battle: “<i>and you will
know the truth, and the truth will set you free.</i>” (John 8:32) God’s word is
powerful. It breathes life and speaks truth. The battle runs deep into our
hearts. Deception tears us down. It breaks us. The truth is, there is always
hope. The truth is, I can know peace in times of anxiety. The truth is, I can
have a future should I follow God’s path. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small;">The anxiety was leading to false
identities about myself. The beauty of God’s grace is that my ultimate identity
does not come from what I am capable (or not capable) of doing. I have a
Christ-given identity. And because of my Christ-given identity, I also have a
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verses in my mirror. One of my favourite passages comes from Ephesians 6. I
read, “<i> </i><span style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: white; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial;">(v. 13).</span>
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all circumstances take up<span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>the
shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all<span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>the flaming darts of<span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>the evil one” </span></i><span style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: white; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial;">and<i>
“the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God” </i>(v.16-17).<i> </i>There is still a battle occurring every
day. I have to constantly guard my heart against the fiery lies being thrown at
me. But the power of God’s Word makes it possible to fight the battle. With the
Truth, I can see hope for a future.</span></span><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: medium;">The lessons of growing up never get old. Society’s milestone
of turning the legal age of 18 does not mean our brains automatically become
filled with all things wisdom and knowledge. I am sure there are some people
who <i>think</i> that happens. But to remain
grounded in the tumultuous journey of life, I think it is important to be open
to what you can learn and how you can grow.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: medium;">An on-going lesson I’ve come across is coping with change.
If you know me well enough, you know I struggle with change. Even a change that
might be considered good can still provoke internal panic. When I turned 18, or
even 21, I did not automatically become immune to this recurring change.
Instead, I continued to be faced with changes and the question always remains, <i>how will I cope with it?</i><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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friendships. I realise that friends come and go. I realise that friendships
have their own seasons. But I have trouble accepting that is the reality of it.
I have had trouble getting out of the mindset of assuming I will stay friends
with the same people for the rest of my life.<o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: medium;">I spent the first 6 years of schooling with the same circle
of friends. I had a best friend, and most of the other girls in my class were
my friends. Then it was time for my family and I to move away. Talk about a
huge change! <o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: medium;">I quickly became friends with one particular girl and
throughout high school we were also really close. I managed to adjust from one
circle of friends in the class to several cliques and actually not being liked
by everyone. It wasn’t easy. I didn’t like it. But it happened.<o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: medium;">During high school, I became very attached to and very
dependent on a particular friend. When the season of this friendship began to falter,
I really struggled feeling lost, alone and abandoned. Somehow, I got through
it. I wasn’t exactly walking close to God at this point. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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new friendships. I’ve noticed, from a healthier standpoint, how friendships go
through seasons. There are autumns and there are springs. There are summers and
there are winters. Friendships go through the cycle. Friendship is a beautiful
gift from God. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: medium;">I believe part of God’s grace working in my life is working
on my heart to accept this concept of seasons. It hurts when a friendship ends.
It is painful when a friend feels far away. It is also challenging when there
is a need to walk away or take a step back from a particular friendship. It
really is. I look at some of the friends I have in my life now and I have no
idea what kind of changes these relationships will go through over time. But I
do know they are all a gift of God and serve a purpose.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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of a husband, it is especially important to build and invest in these
friendships. We were made to be in community with one another. I have been
given fantastic friends who continue to love, encourage and point me to Jesus. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: medium;">But the best thing to learn most of all? The constancy of
God. God will never be late for me or forget we had a meeting. He will never
let me down. He will never get my coffee wrong. Or turn His back on me. While
friends walk in and out of your life, God is always there.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: medium;">Deuteronomy 3:16<i> 'Be strong and courageous. Do not fear or be in dread of them, for it is the Lord your God who goes with you. He will not leave you or forsake you.'</i></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; line-height: 107%;">I grew up with the expectation that I would be married by my early twenties. I expected I would be able to have as many children as I decided (which changed from 2-6 multiple times!). It did not occur to me that I might be single for an undetermined time. The people that I knew who were single past their twenties were few and far between. In my mind, eventually they would get married. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small;"><span style="line-height: 107%;">Enter my late teens. Despite what I knew of God’s standards for Christian relationships, I turned away from, ‘</span><i><span style="background: rgb(253 , 254 , 255); color: #001320; line-height: 107%;">do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers’</span></i><span style="background: rgb(253, 254, 255); color: #001320; line-height: 107%;"> (2 Corinthians 6:14). I thought I knew better. I thought that being with someone, even a non-Christian, was better than being single.</span></span><br />
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<span style="background: rgb(253 , 254 , 255); color: #001320; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; line-height: 107%;">I have now spent the last 3 years single. There have been plenty of times that I have believed I am doomed for singleness. One is not a very pretty number most of the time. The lonely night when going through a tough time isn’t fun. The lack of a partner to share your hopes, dreams and fears with isn’t fun. The unfulfilled desire of marriage and children is not fun. For a long time, I did not think there was much that was fun about being single. For a long time, I did not understand how people coped with being single.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="background: rgb(253 , 254 , 255); color: #001320; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; line-height: 107%;">Even when I believed I’ve been doomed to singleness, God has continued to work to change my heart towards this season of my life. There are times it feels like winter. Sometimes it feels like it will be winter forever. But there have been amazing days of spring as well. Though I have made poor choices in the past, I feel like God’s grace is evident.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="background: rgb(253 , 254 , 255); color: #001320; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; line-height: 107%;">God has been gracious to heal my body, soul and mind from a destructive cycle. God has shown grace to reveal who He is, over and over, so that I may fall in love with Him as my heavenly Father again. God has given grace to open up doors in loving families at church. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="background: rgb(253 , 254 , 255); color: #001320; font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; line-height: 107%;">Does this make me doomed? I do not think so even though I will still have days I will think I am. As I have begun to embrace this season, I have seen opportunities arise. They may not replace the desire of my heart. But I feel like God has been gracious enough to open these doors and allow me to experience joy from serving Him and others.</span></div>
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<span style="background: rgb(253 , 254 , 255); color: #001320; line-height: 107%;"><span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: small;">Maybe it is not so much that I am doomed for singleness, maybe I am destined for a season. And that is okay. Truly! Jeremiah 29:11, ‘<i>For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope</i>’ gives me hope. Admittedly, I struggle with that verse from time to time – what if those plans do not involve marriage or children? But I can have faith that even in the midst of singleness, God is bigger than anything and can use that for His glory. God can use me in any season of life. He can turn winter into spring. God’s grace is powerful to work in my life even in the winter seasons. ‘<i>For from his fullness we have all received, grace upon grace.</i>’ John 1:16</span><span style="font-size: small;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08840462269275616915noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-886230777934789312.post-88588991260832234832014-09-26T22:46:00.003-07:002017-03-25T00:27:00.913-07:00In the beginning...<div style="border: 0px none; color: #2c3e50; line-height: 24px; margin-bottom: 1em; outline: none 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; word-wrap: break-word;">
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: medium;">I always struggle with titles of blogs, not to mention blog post titles. I am hardly going to go ‘back to the beginning’ of my life or when ‘this’ started or anything. This is going to be the beginning of choosing to see the grace in all seasons of my life. It’s going to be a way to look forward.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif; font-size: medium;">Grace can be a tricky word to define. It can be even trickier to see it in your life. Along my journey through life, I've come to understand the notion of life occurring in seasons. Some seasons are sucky- they feel cold, miserable, lonely and sometimes never-ending. But some seasons are warm, full of love and laughter. As mentioned in Ecclesiastes 3, 'there is a season for everything.' And seasons have an ending. While there have been warm seasons that have not been enjoyable to experience end, it's brought comfort in those cold, hard seasons that there is an ending.</span></span><span style="font-size: medium;">I</span></span><span style="font-family: georgia, "times new roman", serif; font-size: medium;"> am hoping to use this blog to document a journey to renewal and freedom from the grace experienced. I am hoping this can be a place where I can be honest with myself and with others while also sharing encouragement and ultimate hope.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: medium;">Life isn't easy. But it isn’t about how hard it can be or how many times I fall. This is about taking the step into the ‘unknown’, relinquishing control and admitting I need God in every aspect of my life. It’s about feeling the grace and love of God, a thousand times over as I let Him bring me out of any dark place and let Him use me according to His plan- not mine. It’s about taking the steps, no matter what, to remain in recovery and heal my body and my mind and my soul.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: medium;">As I continue to work at putting off the old self and accepting Jesus' grace at giving me a new life, new identity and new hope, I want to show the grace that is evident in all seasons of life. </span></div>
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